Yesterday we talked about sex on the first day. I read all of the comments and I really enjoyed reading different points of views! Thanks again for all of the comments and likes.
This topic led me to wonder..why is there a double standard when it comes to sex?
If sex occurs on the first day, why is it that the woman doesn’t respect herself? What about the man?? It takes two to tango right!?
Men are glorified for their sexual experiences and partners. Women are dragged through the mud for theirs. Example: Rihanna has become very sexually free within the last few years. She has posted nudes on her Instagram, and she is not afraid to let the world know that she a sexual women. She was immediately labeled a whore. Amber Rose is extremely vocal about her sexual freedoms..again whore, hoe, THOT.
Let’s talk about these men in the industry. They talk about sex with this person and that person, they have half naked women all over them in videos and at club appearances. They have sex with hundreds of groupies but, they are respected and labeled as “Bosses”. Do you see a problem here?
A man can work at a job, be married or single and have sex with several women on the job. Of course he is not frowned upon. But…a woman at the same job can give 2 of her male coworkers her number is she is labeled “the work hoe” Why?
If a woman has sex on the first day, she has no morals or standards per society. The same man that was in the bed with her is just a man, he has no labels. Some women worry about the man respecting them after sex and forgot that he’s in the act with them. Who cares about how he feels!!! Be confident within yourself and your decisions. Trust me, if a man has sex with a women on the first day he isn’t worrying about how much respect that women has for him.
So can someone please tell me! Why do men get passes and women don’t! It’s the same act. Why is there such a huge double standard when it comes to sex and dating!???
People definitely have different views about sex period. Some people believe that you should wait for marriage, some people are more sexually free. Most times their opinions are based on religion. Like I said before this is a no judgement zone so I don’t think it’s right or wrong either way. I believe in freedom of choice, religion and so on. So whatever makes you happy..DO IT!