Relationships are hard right?!!! No matter how much you love your partner and how happy you are with them, everyone experiences hard times at some point in their relationship. Everyone has different things they will and will not tolerate in a relationship.
What do you expect out of your relationship?
My question is… In a relationship what’s more important to you, love or money?
You have an amazing husband!! He helps you cook, clean and take care of the kids. He is very affectionate, loving, unselfish and compassionate. But…..he works at a low paying job. You are the breadwinner and take care of the household expenses. He can barely help with bills. Your husband is not able to take you on vacation, dates or able to afford nice gifts. Anytime you do anything as a family you have to pay. Despite all of these things, he treats you like a queen. He runs your bath after work and rubs your feet while you take your bath. He comes home every day, straight from work and you never have to worry about him cheating or doing anything disrespectful in the marriage. You and your husband are a team when it comes to parenting and he loves you dearly.
Your husband makes great money. You live in a beautiful home and drive a high-priced luxury car. You don’t have to work unless you want to. You don’t even know how much the mortgage or any of the bills are because he pays everything. He takes you on vacation and pays for you to go away whenever you want to get away. He makes sure you have all of the nicest shoes, clothes, and bags. You eat at all of the top restaurants of your choice. But…he is a cheater. You know that he cheats and has been cheating for years because he doesn’t hide it from you. He has no respect for you. He barely comes home, and he doesn’t help with the kids. He showers you with gifts and money to keep you around, but you feel lonely and empty inside. He never says “I love you” or shows that he loves you. He doesn’t sleep in the same bed as you and barely wants to talk to you.
Which man do you want #1 or #2?
Money is very important. You cannot survive without it. EVERYTHING cost!! A place to live, food, transportation, heat in the winter and air in the summer. Ideally, we want a mixture of man 1 and 2. We all want money and the love, without the cheating. That’s in a perfect world though. Some people luck up and get both but most everyday people don’t. COMMENT BELOW